If a man never discovers his deepest purpose, or if he permanently
compromises it and uses his family as an excuse for doing so, then his
core becomes weakened and he loses depth and presence.
His woman loses trust and sexual polarity with him, even though he may
be putting much energy into parenting their children and doing the
housework.
A man should, of course, be a full participant in caring for children
and the household. But if he gives up his deepest purpose to do so,
ultimately, everyone suffers.